Tamara Falcó and Shakira, or how to face the horns: from mass and forgiveness, to rap that stabs

2022 was an especially prolific year in infidelity stories, of course, mainly by famous men who left their even more famous wives or girlfriends devastated and enraged. The most notorious, the “horns” that women like Shakira o Tamara Falco. How they have faced the betrayal of their partners, each of them indicates two very different ways of understanding femininity: the classic Judeo-Christian forgiveness and return to the fold, starring Tamara with the reveler Inigo Onievaor the stab wounds that through his art he has devoted to Gerard Piqué and his girlfriend, Clara Chiahis ex-wife, who has exploded the viewing figures of his video with Shaving at BZRP Music Session #53. In eight hours, the spiteful song has had more than 23 million views on YouTube, and everyone (rather, all) applauds the Colombian.

Despite the differences, there is a phrase in the musical song in which the profile of both deceived fully coincides. Shakira says in the song, “women don’t cry anymore, women charge”. Yes, it is true, but our two deceived protagonists do it in a very different way.

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Without getting into moral judgments, being cuckolded is never pleasant. Hurts. tear. But also, if you are a public figure, it destroys you, because society tends to point to you as the possible culprit for not having given your partner what he needed from you (yes, deceived women are still thought of that way), or for having overwhelmed him excessively, or having been naive. Fortunately, less and less are they seen as the machos that the infidels once were, although there is still something of that.

Tamara and Shakira are two women of public success. But their businesses are different, their evolution as empowered women has different approaches, their interpretation of feminism is different, and their way of facing adversity is also opposite.

The marquise who forgives with the ‘condility sir’

Tamara Falcó said that she did not care that her fiancé’s infidelity had been “six seconds or a nanosecond in the metaverse” and that reconciliation was almost impossible. She deleted it from her social networks, she assured that she was fine alone, that she only thought about her future, and that she did not have any kind of relationship with the infidel by “physician’s prescription”.

The daughter of Isabella Preysler He made a feint of a woman empowered in sentimental matters, but very modest, as she is. She went with a friend of her ex to dress as a nun in Lourdes, for a high-level wedding of her best friend in the United Arab Emirates, and made all the money she could with her “disgrace” . She played the role of her deceived woman who balks, but for a short time.

In three months he has forgiven Onieva. For this, he has made him go through the pious route of virtue through the mass of the Gallo on Christmas Eve, New Year’s Eve at mom’s house, and the sweet little trip to the frozen ends of the earth to make his character profitable, although the paparazzi annoyed them the plan.

And it is that the marquesita de Griñón is no longer so “ita”. Despite the fact that many of her attitudes and reflections seem to come from the head of a teenager, raised between cotton wool and with zero struggles to survive the cruel world, Tamara is 41 years old, and her pious vision of the role of a woman on earth includes having children. And the thing about the “rice” going away is already smelling it in the stew of her life.

Recapturing Onieva, no matter how much she could have the man she wanted, could be the only opportunity to take advantage of the few years of fertility that she has left, and after all, the “truqui” has already caught him, he knows his miseries , and starting over may be too much work to relaunch her product: herself.

The female lioness that defends itself by attacking

On the other hand, Shakira is not in herself a product. Her music is even more powerful than her physique or her image. Furthermore, she is young, but she already has two children for whom she would surely “kill”, as she put it. Esteban in his day about his Andreita.

The Colombian, regardless of her religious beliefs, whether she has them or not, has taken Piqué’s infidelity in an empowered, feminist way, with anger and without shame for it, attacking to defend herself and putting both ovaries on the mixing table of bizarre.

In addition to pointing out the damage to whom she has done it, she has achieved it with the quality of the artist that she is, both in the lyrics and in the music. She is an example of a 21st century woman who loves for love, and hates for the same, and she does not hide, or wrinkle, or want to forgive. Shakira can do whatever she wants, and not hide her pain in the cloak of any shame, because it has become quite clear that the one who has not had it (shame) is Piqué.

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With very explicit lyrics: “I only make music, sorry that I splashed you…” or “He has the name of a good person, clearly… it’s not what it sounds like”, or “You left my mother-in-law as a neighbor. With the press at the door and the debt in the Treasury”, and a rhythm as is her custom, which immediately hooks her, this is already the umpteenth song in which the singer tells what she feels, but on this occasion she has been relentless.

As the content indicates, “a wolf like me is not there for guys like you… I’m too big for you”, Shakira through this song gives a sample of how women have evolved in the world, at least in the westerner, and what is our role in relation to love.

No more being cuckolded and beaten. We must put the dots on the i’s and forget about the role of afflicted damsels that centuries of history attributed to us. Less prayers. Less crying and showing everything that one is worth when she is, ethically, far superior to the unfaithful. Thousands of women, who are totally supporting the Colombian, no longer want to see themselves as the modest and mournful victims of patriacal and toxic infidelity, and they are going to follow that maxim that the singer has made hashtag: women no longer cry guys, now we invoice. Take note.